Leveraging Your Home Equity to Ease Money Worries and (Better Yet!) Build Wealth

The Lighter Side of Real Estate • January 11, 2024

When you’re worried about money, it can feel like you’re the only person in the world who’s struggling to figure out how to pay for things. So it may come as a relief to find out that you’re not alone if you’ve got money on your mind.

In fact, a recent survey of 2,000 people with less than 2 months worth of liquid assets revealed that 77% of them felt like they carried the mental and emotional weight of the finances in their household alone, and spent an average of 19 days worrying about money per year. About 25% of those surveyed said they devote a full week each month on budgeting, checking their bank account balance, and reviewing their credit card transactions.

It may not make it any easier when you’re dealing with the stress, but at least you know it isn’t a unique situation.

However, if you own a home, the past few years have probably put you in a position to worry a bit less, and maybe even put you in a better financial position in life moving forward.

How to Tap Into the Hidden Financial Potential in Your Home

Home values have risen substantially in many areas over the past few years. Even if you haven’t done any major improvements to your house, the chances are your equity has grown considerably, which means you have some potential money that could be put to good use.

Your equity is the difference between the amount your house is currently worth, and the amount you owe to any lenders.

For example, if you owed $240,000 (which is about the average mortgage balance per household according to Bankrate), and your house was worth $513,000 (which is the approximate average home price in the US according to Federal Reserve Economic Data), you’d have $273,000 worth of equity.

Unfortunately, that money isn’t real until and unless you monetize it. Other than selling your house, there are two basic ways to do that:

  • Do a cash-out refinance. This means you would take out a new loan on your house for more money than you currently owe, paying off the balance of the existing loan, and pocketing the difference between the new loan and existing loan you paid off.
  • Take out a home equity line of credit (HELOC). This is a revolving line of credit using the equity of your home as collateral.

In both approaches, lenders will typically allow you to borrow up to 80% of your equity. Using the above numbers as an example, if you refinanced your house with a $300,000 mortgage, you would free up about $60,000. Or you could take out an equity line of credit for $60,000 so you keep your existing mortgage rate if it’s one you want to keep.

That $60,000 is money you could use as breathing room to feel less stress over the what-if’s in life, like unexpected expenses, or, better yet, to improve your financial situation by using it strategically to make more money.

Just Make Sure to Use It Wisely…

No matter which way you tap into existing home equity, you’re going to have to pay that money back because they’re loans against the current value of your house. So, while just freeing up some cash to give you peace of mind and less stress is certainly helpful, using that money to make more money is the ideal way to put it to use.

This article from CBS News listed 5 smart ways to use your home equity in 2024, such as:

  • Use it to increase the value of your home even more. Doing some renovations or improvements that increase the value of your home can be a great use of equity. Just make sure to make strategic choices that will actually have a positive return on your investment by asking your preferred real estate agent for advice on the improvements that’ll give you the most bang for your buck.
  • Pay down higher interest debts. If you have credit card debts that are difficult to pay down, using your equity to get rid of those high interest payments can be a great way to clean the slate. Just make sure you don’t go right back to using those credit cards and accrue more debt again, and use the money you aren’t paying towards paying down those credit cards to start saving some money for emergencies, retirement, and a monthly safety net.
  • Invest in education. Whether it’s for you or your children, advancing earning potential by investing in education can be a useful way to use your equity. Just make sure the prospects for jobs in the field of study will be worth the cost of the education, and then some! (Also, weigh whether simply taking out student loans would be less risky, or more cost effective than using your equity.)
  • Buy more real estate. Using the equity in your current home to buy an investment property that provides you with positive cash flow is a great way to add to your wealth by having another property that you’re building even more equity with. Just make sure to work with your preferred real estate agent closely and buy a place that will produce enough income to cover the mortgage and expenses, and ideally some extra cash you can pocket per month.

While monetizing the equity you’ve gained can certainly make life easier, less stressful, and even financially better, just remember to be thoughtful about how much equity you take out — especially if you plan on selling in the next few years. Home values are still currently at all-time highs in many areas, and look to remain strong, but they can also drop depending upon how the market plays out. So leave yourself a good amount of equity in your home to stay safe.

Also, make sure you can afford to pay the money back on a monthly basis, and you aren’t just adding more debt that you’ll have to pay off and worry about. Ideally, use it for good reasons that make sense financially, and not to take a trip to a resort or or go on shopping sprees.

The Takeaway:

If you find yourself worrying about money being tight each month, you’re not alone. In fact, a recent survey revealed that 77% of people with less than 2 months worth of liquid assets felt like they carried the mental and emotional weight of the finances in their household alone, and spent an average of 19 days worrying about money per year.

But if you own a home, you may have equity you can tap into that will ease the monthly stress by freeing up some of the cash tied up in your home’s value by doing a cash-out refinance, or taking out a home equity line of credit. Better yet, if you invest it wisely you can use it to improve your finances! Just don’t tap into your equity for frivolous expenses, or take on more debt than you can comfortably handle.

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Stay or Sell? How To Make the Right Call as You Age

By KCM • May 24, 2026
Stay or Sell? How To Make the Right Call as You Age At some point, as you start thinking about the years ahead , this question tends to come up: “Could I stay here long-term… or would it make more sense to move?” It’s not always urgent. It often shows up in small moments, like going up and down the stairs, keeping up with the maintenance, or just thinking about what the next chapter of your life might look like in this home. And for most people, the answer is simple. They want to stay. The USC Leonard Davis School of Gerontology found about 90% of adults over 65 prefer to stay in their homes as they get older (see below): But even if staying feels like the right answer, it’s still worth thinking ahead about what that might actually look like. That’s where the right agent can really help. What You Need To Plan for If You’re Staying in Your Home Aging in place is definitely possible. But it’s better if you have a plan. And here’s why. The home that once worked perfectly may need to change with you over the years. And it’s easier if you can anticipate those expenses. Sometimes that means small updates: like adding grab bars in the shower. Other times, you’ll have to make bigger decisions: like reworking layouts or moving key spaces to the first floor. Some of those changes are going to be simple. Others can be a meaningful investment. And that’s why thinking about it early matters. Not because you need to decide anything right now, but because it gives you time. Time to understand what your home may need. Time to explore your options. Time to find the right contractors. Time to space out the expense of the upgrades. According to ElderLife Financial, here's a rough baseline of what it could cost depending on what needs to be done (see below): And don’t worry. If your heart is really set on staying, but the costs feel like a concern, it helps to know you have options. Depending on your situation, there may be financial assistance programs available, along with tools like home warranties to help manage unexpected costs. Just remember, if you’re thinking about making updates, it’s always worth having a quick conversation before you start. A real estate agent can help you understand which changes tend to make sense for your situation and how they may impact your home’s value based on your local market. When Moving Might Make More Sense But staying isn’t always the best fit for every situation. According to Pegasus Senior Living: “While most seniors hope to age in place, practical considerations sometimes make selling a home the wiser choice.” Sometimes, it comes down to a simple shift: when the home that once made life easier, starts to make it harder. That might look like: Maintenance or yardwork that's starting to feel overwhelming Stairs or layouts that are getting harder to manage day-to-day Or needing more support or care or being too far from loved ones And sometimes, it’s not about necessity at all. It’s about lifestyle. Some homeowners just don’t want to live through major renovations. Others are ready to simplify, downsize , or move somewhere that better fits this next chapter, whether that’s a smaller home, a 55+ community, or a place closer to family. For them, moving simply means making daily life easier. Bottom Line There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. Some people stay and make updates. Others move to simplify things. Either can be the right choice. The goal isn’t to pick one today. It’s to understand your options early, so when the time comes, you feel confident instead of rushed. And if you ever want a sounding board to think through what the future could look like for you, let’s connect.

Is Late May the Best Time To List Your House?

By KCM • May 21, 2026
Is Late May the Best Time To List Your House? You may have heard April 12-18 was the “best week” to list your house. That’s based on a report from Realtor.com. But now that it’s passed, you may be wondering if you missed your moment. Here's the good news – you didn’t. Because the reality is, there isn’t just one perfect week to sell your house this Spring. There’s a window. And right now, you’re still in it. Your Window To Sell Is Still Wide Open Here’s why. Different organizations run studies like this every year. And they don’t always land on the exact same week. That’s okay. It’s because they're using different research methods and even different definitions of what “best” means. But the fact that the results vary points to a larger trend. While there may be sweet spots, the entire Spring season gives sellers an opportunity to get some of the best conditions (and best sales prices) of the year. And it’s definitely not too late to jump in. Why Listing in Late May Is the Perfect Play According to Zillow, the best time to list your house this year is the last 2 weeks of May. And that’s approaching fast. Based on their analysis, this is the ideal time to do it if you want to make top dollar. Because, in this 2-week window, homes sell for more . Sometimes, quite a bit more. Depending on where you are and the price point in your area, some homeowners may even net tens of thousands of dollars extra in this sweet spot. As Zillow explains: “Why late spring? Buyer demand typically peaks before Memorial Day. Families want to move during the summer and settle in before the new school year. More buyers shopping at once can spark competition and lift prices .” And they’re not the only ones saying listing in May could be the key to selling for more. ATTOM Data analyzed almost 52 million home sales over the past 10 years and found sellers in May are achieving some of the highest returns . That means the ideal window this year is very much still open. What This Means for You If your goal is to sell for the strongest possible price, this is where timing and strategy come together. And you want to be sure you’re ready to make the most of it. So, what should you be doing right now? When prepping for a fast-moving window like this, you don’t want to waste time or money on the wrong prep work. And your agent is your go-to to make sure you’re focusing on the right things. They’ll be able to tell you if the “best week” is slightly different in your market. And what quick repairs or updates can help you get a higher price, without taking a ton of time or effort. Here's a quick example of things an agent may recommend based on information from Redfin: At the end of the day, when your prep time’s short, doing the right things matters more than doing more things. Bottom Line Zillow says the best time to list your house is just around the corner. Are you ready to make the most of it? If you want to take advantage of this Spring sweet spot and get top dollar for your house, let’s talk about what you need to do now to get ready to hit the market.

Think You Have To Put 20% Down? Most First-Time Homebuyers Don’t.

By KCM • May 20, 2026
Think You Have To Put 20% Down? Most First-Time Homebuyers Don’t. According to Google Trends, online searches for down payment information recently hit an all-time high. And that’s a clear sign more buyers are trying to figure out what they really need to save before making a move (see graph below): If you’re wondering the same thing, you can always turn to the internet for answers. But a lot of the time, it’s better to ask a local expert. Because here’s what a pro would tell you. The 20% Down Payment Myth The idea that you need 20% down to buy a home is one of the biggest misconceptions around the homebuying process. And the data debunks the myth. While there are benefits to putting that much money down, most first-time buyers put down far less. Here’s why. Unless it’s stated by your lender, you typically don’t have to have a 20% down payment. There are even some loan options designed to help you get into a home with a much smaller upfront cost. As the Mortgage Reports explains: “The amount you need to put down will depend on a variety of factors, including the loan type and your financial goals. If you don’t have a large down payment saved up, don’t worry—there are plenty of options available, and you don’t need to put down the traditional 20% . . . many homebuyers are able to secure a home with as little as 3% or even no down payment at all . . . ” For example, FHA loans allow down payments as low as 3.5% , while VA and USDA loans offer zero down payment options for qualified applicants, like Veterans. And those options are just one reason so many first-time buyers are able to buy without a 20% down payment. What Buyers Are Actually Putting Down So, if buyers aren’t doing 20%, how much do they actually put down? According to the National Association of Realtors (NAR), the median down payment for first-time homebuyers is only 10%. That’s half of what you probably expected. That means if you’re aiming to save 20% because you think you have to, you may be setting a timeline that’s longer than necessary. And here’s some more good news. It’s not only that you may be able to buy with less money down than you thought, but there are also options to help you get to your down payment goal even faster. Why You Should Look into Down Payment Assistance Programs There are a lot of programs designed to help you save for a down payment – and they can make a big difference in how fast you hit your savings target. Unfortunately, buyers don’t realize how many there are, or that they may qualify for help. Research from Realtor.com shows almost 80% of first-time homebuyers qualify for down payment assistance (DPA), but only 13% actually use it (see chart below): And that’s another big miss holding would-be buyers like you back. In the U.S., there are over 2,600 homeownership programs available, many offering significant financial support. As Down Payment Resource shares : “ With an average benefit of $18,000, down payment assistance (DPA) remains one of the most essential tools for addressing the nation’s affordability challenges. Programs continue to expand in scope, serving a broader range of incomes, property types and borrower needs, including first-generation, military and repeat buyers.” Imagine how much further your savings could go with an extra $18,000 you can use to buy. In some cases, you may even be able to stack multiple programs, giving what you’ve saved an even bigger boost. Bottom Line The simple truth is: most first-time buyers don’t put 20% down . And if you’ve been waiting to buy until you have that saved, you may be setting a timeline that’s longer than necessary. To find out what you really need to save and if you qualify for any help, connect with a trusted lender who can walk you through your options. You may be able to buy sooner than you thought.
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